Friday, December 19, 2014

The Pregnancy of Conversion

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by Caleb Ratzlaff

Recently on Ground Motive, I discussed the decentred nature of identity, attributing the decenteredness to the fact that decision-making-selves are different from, yet dependant on determinate actions. In a similar spirit, this post focuses on the liminal moment of decision and the tension that provides its (non)foundation.

Since reading St. Augustine's Confessions in undergrad, I’ve struggled to understand conversion. What happens in the moment of repentance, for example? How is any decision made at all, for that matter?

Although most activities involve little decision making—my fingers flow quite unintentionally across the keyboard—decisions do at the very least seem to occur. We observe them most clearly when our routine is rudely interrupted, when for example, a slow moving elderly women impedes one’s commute. Moments of confrontation call us to account for our otherwise habitual actions, requiring a decision—do we stop to help carry her luggage or jump to the other side of the stairs?

Jacques Derrida argues that every decision must pass through a crucible of the undecidable. By this he means that although a responsible decision should be a well-considered one, action never waits for reflection. At the moment of confrontation, when the elderly woman queues ahead of us, the question “what should I do?” is already a response and an action taken. The immediacy of action leaves no time to reflect. One is responsible even before she wants to be. As a result, decisions always occur in a moment of ignorance, in non-decision. No amount of time or reflective resources would solve this dilemma—the problem is inherent in the phenomenon itself. As Derrida citing Kierkegaard writes, “The instant of decision is a madness.”1

Even if it is a madness, the ordeal of decision-making may liberate. In complete uncertainty, nothing imposes itself on the decision-maker, no rule, no specialist or sovereign judge; nothing in one’s context tells one how to respond.2 In the moment of non-decision, the agent is free to make up her own mind, to take responsibility for the decision that needs to be made. Without this initial ignorance, there could only be “the imperturbable application of rules, of rules known or knowable, the deployment of a program with full knowledge of the facts.”3 It is not a decision if a computer can do it.

Uncertainty does not mean responsibility dissolves. The liminal moment, the moment of the undecidable, creates a space in which one can make a decision for her self. Thus, in the blindness of the ordeal, Derrida claims, “I must then take what is called a decision and a responsibility, a responsible decision; I must give myself, I must invent for myself a rule of transaction of compromise, of negotiation that is not programmable by any knowledge, not by science or consciousness.”4 The ordeal allows the agent to exercise autonomy, in the moment of non-decision, the agent chooses for herself.

However, each and every decision is haunted by the ordeal. It ensures that the decision is irresponsible, that each effort is made in a state of not knowing for sure the best course of action. This inescapable uncertainty infects us with anxiety and hopelessness.

Anxiety can be tempered by realizing that a response—asking “what should I do?”—is always answerable to others who have come and are coming. One, in a mysterious way, is always in relationship with that which is different, unknown, and absent from the present. A decision that strives to respond responsibly to the unknown of each situation requires a questioning without limit, the type of reflection that the haunting of the undecidable demands. Behind the limitless questioning that begins with the initial thought, “what should I do?” is an implicit affirmation of relationship.

One feels the mysterious nature of a relationship with what is different most acutely during the the ordeal of the undecidable in the moment of decision. The fog of this ordeal seemed to thicken for me personally as my wife and I experienced the birth of our first child. While considering the moment of decision in this context, I was struck by the way it resembles a pregnant-self and the initiation into parenthood.

Much like a wedding engagement, an individual who decides to become a parent does so blindly, when she has very little understanding of the consequences. From the moment of conception, a woman might be considered a parent, but one would be hard pressed to claim that she knows what parenthood “really” means, if such a meaning exists. Uncertainty is evident right from the beginning, during the initial stages of pregnancy one has no idea of the most basic characteristics of the child, such as its sex or its physical well-being or what it will take to be a parent to this strange creature. The prospective parent finds herself in a position of not knowing, of uncertainty, as she anxiously waits at the threshold for what is in the process of coming. 

Although her waiting is accompanied by a level of blindness, the living creature within her womb constantly reminds her that change is coming, in fact it’s already here. She literally feels this new life within her yet has little understanding of who it is or how it will change her situation. Although the parent must respond, she is uncertain how to do so responsibly because of the unique and foreigner character of the child. In this sense, the blindness of the parent’s ordeal is related to her relationship with her child, it affirms the relation.  Overcoming uncertainty requires the destruction of difference between mother and child—a violent act that denies relationship. Uncertainty is an essential ingredient of the experience.

Indeed, pregnancy and conversion overlap insightfully. New life resides in the womb as a foreigner, an anonymous alien. Yet, at the same time, it is an intimate human being sharing its body with the mother. Similarly, as we approach the moment of decision, a change seems to emerge. Whether it is made or suffered is impossible to tell. Nonetheless, in the moment of decision something both foreign and familiar occurs. A decision is born, conceived in the ordeal of the undecidable. The ordeal is a pregnancy, a pregnancy of selfhood and decision.

Who will be the midwife? What will make space for new life? Where and what are the phantom voices that question us from the outside, the ones who intruded upon that young man sitting in his garden, pregnant with himself?

(1) Derrida, “Force of Law,” 255. 
(2) Derrida, Negotiations, 298.  
(3) Derrida, Negotiations, 298.  
(4) Derrida, Negotiations, 372

Caleb Ratzlaff is a junior member at the Institute of Christian Studies in Toronto. Besides procrastinating, Caleb is working on a thesis that follows some of Derrida's thoughts on the topic of responsibility.

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